Life Lessons From Costa Rica!!!
Tuesday, September 7th, 2010Our father/son surf trip to Costa Rica was a truly great experience…and not just for the surfing. Before our trip I was wondering what kind of impact the trip might have on Justin or Adam.
And then…all on his own…Justin decides to start writing a weekly note, here’s the 1st one;
by Justin Fricke
Hola familia y amigos,
I’m sitting here now just reflecting on what this trip has brought me and the rest of the Winter Springs Surf Team LLC. (What we named our Father/Son surf group)
So many life lessons come to mind.
1.) Be thankful for what you have-This being my second time in Costa Rica I somewhat knew what to expect in regards to the economy and the way the locals live. This place is literally a third world country, but you would never know if you closed your eyes and just talked to the people here.
For the most part they are almost always happy and want to share their life stories and want to hear your life stories. For example the afternoon hotel guard or ‘watchie” Tumbo” always has a smile on his face and greets us with an “Hola amigos, como esta’s”. Followed by asking us where we went for the day.
The other day I was coming back from the taco stand and he pointed at my arm and said “Hey Pura Vida”, I smiled and said “si”, he then asked why I got (a tattoo) it and I explained to him that my family and I were here 3 years ago and heard everyone saying it and my mom and I fell in love with the saying and decided to get Pura Vida tattoos. Just being that person to always have the smile and want to be the first to say “Hello” can always make a difference in someone’s life.
2.) Get a good education-We’re presented with so many opportunities in America and so often we just let them slip by and not even notice.
3.) “Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable”- This saying has been said to me by two very wise people in my life, Mauricio Garcia and Randy Pawlowski. (Two of Justin’s Mentors) I can finally say I know what it’s like to “get comfortable being uncomfortable”.
When my family went on vacation I would always worry about what could happen in the worst way. This trip has been so changing and my paradigm has certainly been shifted. Back home I would normally never ask for help, because I would always wonder in my head “I don’t want them to think I’m idiot” or something along those lines. Since I’ve been here I can’t even keep track about how many questions I’ve asked and for the most part I’ve asked the questions and had small conversations in Spanish/Spanglish. Once you finally decide to let go and open up and step outside your comfort zone who knows what you could get/accomplish in life.
Going back to point number one I want to thank my dad, brother, Mr. Nickerson, and Pat for making this one amazing trip. This has by far been one of my most favorite trips.
Pura Vida,
Justin Fricke
PS-If you want to see pictures from our trip go to http://www.facebook.com/pages/Winter-Springs-Surf-Team-LLC/150359798313163?ref=sgm










